/Sih-thuh-les/ adj.
Coined by author/poet
John ConnerFeeling wistful upon brushing past a person you once shared a life with,
refreshed to see a smile you feared you ruined, a laugh they hated, but you adored, or the scars the hid now proudly owned, suddenly all too aware
that it is no longer for you, and no longer carries the same meaning it used to.