To ejaculate with little to no warning without having physically stimulated the genitals. Usually happens when you're young, hormones are high/imagination is vivid, and so fast that hardly any erection occurs. It is brought on purely by mental stimuli and/or quick and unexpected flirting; all the pieces click into place in an instant, then boom!
Dude: Once this hot chick I knew flashed me completely out of the blue; it was such a turn on that I shot the cherry!
Dude's Friend: Wow, man. She must have been quite the fox!
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.