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To kink shame is to disrespect or devalue a person for his or her particular kink or fetish.
To kink shame someone is to put them down for having a kink you disapprove of or can't relate to, for ex.:

"Eww! You like fat chicks?" to a guy who is into BBW (big beautiful women).

or "I can't believe you let a man boss you around!" to a submissive woman in a D/s relationship

or "Don't you have any self respect?" to a masochist into BDSM.
by lingolinda September 29, 2014
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To insult or make someone feel ashamed about a particular kink.
Guy: my old girlfriend used to kinkshame me all the time because I liked doing dirty things while dressed like a schoolgirl.
by Stressed bisexual March 21, 2016
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kink-shame; Verb; To shame another's kinky, saucy or sexual activities, but only such activities that are generally considered unique to an individual or different to the norm.
Person 1: Did u hear Nathan likes to shove Bibles up Terry's ass?! That's so weird!
Person 2: Don't Kink-shame him! he's allowed to do whatever, holy cow.
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by Origae6 September 03, 2017
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"I hear she likes to bang dogs."
"Well what you kink shaming her for? You fuck little kids and we don't kink shame you
by Buddy Beitans August 09, 2017
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