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heteromantic 

A romantic attraction to a member of the opposite sex, can include sexual attraction or not.

In the case of asexuals, heteromantic would mean they have romantic feelings towards the opposite sex, but not any sexual desire.

The desire for a romantic relationship with someone of the opposite sex
I am physically attracted to both males and females, but am only really interested in dating males. So I am bisexual but heteromantic.
heteromantic by MALM October 12, 2012
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Heteromantic 

When two straight men are fond of each other and can hug without getting hard ons.
2 dudes getting married, that doesn’t sound gay... more heteromantic.
Heteromantic by One21jiggawatts January 27, 2019

Heteromantic

"Being heteroromantic means you feel romantic attraction to people of the opposite gender without feeling intimate attraction for them"

Bruh that's just Asexuality but they tried to make it sound less queer. I can kinda get it, saying your Asexual may sound like you're saying you're "A sexual", I've seen people make that mistake. Heteromanitc feels kind of uneeded though because poeple say they're Asexual Heteromantic. If you say you're just Asexual and just that then that means you're straight and can feel romantic attraction. People are basically saying their sexuality twice.

Heteromantic is such a nothing burger of a neo-sexuality because it is literally just Asexual, we're just making shit up for no reason. I can probably give a bit more leeway to Homoromantic since it's a two in one kind of deal like Aroace.
Person 1: "I'm Asexual Heteromantic."
Person 2: "Don't you mean just Asexual?"
Person 1: "No."
Person 2: "But they're literally the same thing."
Person 1: "No they're not"
Person 2: "Just read the damn rant."
Heteromantic by TheHolyKetchup9 February 5, 2026

heteromantic homosexual 

Someone who is romantically attracted to the opposite gender, but does not feel any sexual attraction towards them, and who has sexual attraction towards the same gender
Joe: Hey bro, I bet you could fuck her if you wanted!
Josh: Nah, not interested in females. At least not having sex with them.

Joe: Wait, so are you gay?

Josh: No, I feel romantic feelings for girls, But I don't want to have sex with them. But I am willing to have sex with another male.

Joe: So you're heteromantic homosexual.

Josh:Yup!

heteromantic bisexuality 

Kiki, heteromantic bisexul is not a real sexuality. stop being homophobic and go fuck yourself.
Kiki: I'm heteromantic bisexual!

Literally anyone: heteromantic bisexuality is acephobic and not a real thing, go touch some grass.

heteroromantic bisexual 

A person who is sexually attracted to both sexes but romantically attracted to only the opposite sex
George wants to have sex with John and not start a relationship with him. He also wants to have sex with Alice but he also wants to start a relationship with her, because he is heteroromantic bisexual.

heteroromantic asexual

Being romantically attracted to the opposite sex, while maintaining very little to no sexual attraction to any gender.
Homosexual Friend : "Hey man, you sure you're straight? 'Cuz you're pretty hot."
Me : We've talked about this. I'm not even technically straight. Well, sorta. I'm a heteroromantic asexual.
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A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
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This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
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Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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