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A lesbian who identifies most with he/him pronouns. Pronouns do NOT equal gender, and lesbians who use he/him pronouns are not men. Furthermore, he/him lesbians are not all non-binary, and can still be women and use he/him pronouns
He/him lesbians experience of gender often stems from having a disconnect to womanhood, for example, compulsory heterosexuality.
Person 1: I identify as a he/him lesbian.
Person 2: Okay, you're valid because pronouns to not equal gender and the experience of lesbianism is not universally the same.
by limepie May 10, 2020
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n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name. Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name. (sometimes written as two words: dead name)

v. 1. To call somebody by their deadname.
v. 2. To out somebody's deadname to the public.
Don't call her by her deadname. She hasn't gone by that name in years.
by Canola Yogurt September 16, 2014
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A lesbian who uses he/him pronouns because they are most comfortable with those pronouns.
He/Him lesbians should totally be respected or you're a lesphobe!
by EbiManami April 21, 2019
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He/him lesbians refer to lesbians who use he/him pronouns despite the two categories being conflicting of one another.

Many people use examples of historical he/him lesbians to validate their identity, however they adapt and change the historic context to their convenience. For example; many claim he/him lesbians used male pronouns because they felt detached from their womanhood. However, the historical use of male pronouns amongst lesbians was STRICTLY for safety, so they could pass as a male to avoid lesbophobia during a highly
homophobic time.
person a) β€œhe/him lesbians are harmful as they invalidate both lesbians and trans men.”

person b) β€œperiod!”
by dykepatrol January 01, 2021
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a straight guy who wants to feel special
some guy: i only like girls
person: so you're het?
some guy: actually i am a he/him lesbian !!!! 😑😑😑
by aarghh c coom arghh September 28, 2020
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