A term used when you over commit on something. Lack of follow through or commitment. Empty promise. Expression comes from barbeque with friends. You always throw more meat on the grill then you intend to eat. Your eyes are bigger then your stomach. When your through cooking there is always leftover meat on the grill.
Erin always says she is going to go to the beach. Is she really coming or is this just meat on the grill.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.