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Frienemies 

People who pretend to be your friend but secretly wish that you would fall on your face...People that put you into a situation that they orchestrated to embarrass you, start drama and/or to make themselves look superior...People that really have self doubt and are jealous but feel they have no recourse except to undermined their friends...People that have no conscientious and under estimate the consequences of their actions because they under estimate the character of their victim
Some that pretends to be your friend but is secretly plotting behind your back to embarrass you in a Public place/party. Frienemies - an enemy that pretends to be your friend
Frienemies by bwichng1 October 16, 2012

frenemesis 

A person with whom you have a long-standing or close relationship, but who is the ultimate frenemy. An arch-rival who pretends to be your good friend, while undermining you behind your back.
She's not just a frenemy, she's my frenemesis.
frenemesis by nodramamama November 11, 2010

Frenemies with benefits 

People who actively dislike each other, but engage in sexual relations with each other on a regular basis.
Just because we don't like each other is no excuse to not have great sex. We can be frenemies with benefits.

I kind of hate him, but he's really good in bed. We're frenemies with benefits.

frenimies 

A "friend" who really doesn't like you, nor you like she, yet you are drawn togther by some sick dramatic bond.
Hey, there are cards tonight at the frenimies' house. Let's go get dissed.
frenimies by coctailblonde December 24, 2007

frienemies 

a blurred friendship; a friend and a rival or enemy.
My classmates made me look bad - they are being such frienemies to me today.
frienemies by Audrey V September 9, 2008

frenemies 

Ashley and i are frenemies, sometimes i just can't stand her.
frenemies by noelle May 1, 2003
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