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Frenemies with benefits 

People who actively dislike each other, but engage in sexual relations with each other on a regular basis.
Just because we don't like each other is no excuse to not have great sex. We can be frenemies with benefits.

I kind of hate him, but he's really good in bed. We're frenemies with benefits.
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Frenamone 

A sea anemone with which one has developed a tentatively cordial relationship. See frenemy.
Sarah presented her finger to the bright red sea anemone, which enveloped it appreciatively. She had a new frenamone.
Frenamone by njmac57 January 2, 2011

frenimies 

A "friend" who really doesn't like you, nor you like she, yet you are drawn togther by some sick dramatic bond.
Hey, there are cards tonight at the frenimies' house. Let's go get dissed.
frenimies by coctailblonde December 24, 2007

frenemies 

Ashley and i are frenemies, sometimes i just can't stand her.
frenemies by noelle May 1, 2003

frenaissance 

A growing friendly relationship characterized by an influx in time spent together. Can occur as a result of a recent "getting-to-know you" period or a rebirth of a stagnant or waning platonic relationship.First mentioned by Phoebe in Episode 6.01 of Friends: "The One After Vegas".
"Have you seen Kyrsten, James, and Casey lately?"

"Yeah, they've been hanging out a lot lately. They're definitely in a frenaissance."
frenaissance by metcalct May 13, 2010

Frenimies 

Two people that used to be very close. Then turned into enemies. That is why people call them Frenimies.
We used to be friends but now we are Frenimies.
Frenimies by Frenimies November 29, 2015
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Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
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Pee Calculus

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I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
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Literally "dirty" pronounced with a West Indian accent. Can also have a positive connotation, for example Sean Paul's album title "Dutty Rock".
"The girl is pretty but she corrupt and dutty!"

or, in a positive usage:

"Booya! That freestyle was dutty!"
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Ajumma wait a moment
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Slop Grenade

When someone uses AI to generate a large document, slide deck, or piece of code/software and tosses it over the fence for you to deal with.
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Brent: he just tossed me a slop grenade
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