When you have sex in the dark with a girl that thinks you're a different person but you aren't aware she mistook you until after the deed is done.
"How'd you lose your virginity?"
"Oh, I pulled a Casper The Friendly Ghost, once I realized she mistook me for someone else I got the hell out of there!"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.