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A boi that is soft and have a leafy friend on their head
Wow you’re a softboi”
Softboi by Somedayowo July 13, 2019
Softboi (noun)

A softboi is emo bitchass or a goth nigga that wears all black and always be smoking packs of cigarettes.
Aye Pierre you wanna come out here and look at this patheticass softboi looking fucker.
Softboi by virgalwarrior666 November 4, 2019
An abusive male behind closed doors (typically a former incel) who overcompensates by acting winsome or pseudo intellectual in public.
Karen: Aw, isn't Steve adorkable?
Me: That softboi has wokefished you too? He sent dick pics to my grandmother last week!
Softboi by Notyourdoormat February 1, 2022
An 'effeminate' cis man who weaponizes his (pose of) emotional intelligence and pseudo-intellectualism in order to lure women into bed (or, failing that, into sending nude photographs). He presents his extreme horny-ness as a romantic sensibility. If his attempt at seduction proves a failure, the softboi may become defensive and even abusive, displaying an incel-like entitlement to sex.

Hobbies include: writing terrible poetry, pretending to read Nietzche, listening to The Smiths, wearing chipped black nail varnish as though its a radical statement, smoking rollies, gas-lighting, wanting a medal for calling himself a 'feminist' while actually being a raging misogynist, proclaiming himself a sex-god while repeatedly failing to locate the clitoris, starting sentences with phrases such as 'you probably have't heard of insert incredibly well-known musician/writer/director'.
'He literally said to me 'I'm not like other guys' - total Softboi'
'Oh god... I think I went on a tinder date with that Softboi. He asked me if I'd heard of Tarantino.'
Softboi by reputablesource July 7, 2022
Someone who shows characteristics of an innocent man but in reality is a sociopath.
Samuel is a softboi, I heard he molests animals.
Softboi by totallynothrishikesh December 12, 2023

Softboi szn 

softboi szn is a period between April 12th and July 12th where sofibois replace the population of eboys.
Man, I can’t wait to see kevboyperry during softboi szn.
Softboi szn by Kaylynandsammy April 12, 2019