A different definition than the goth/raver hybrid.

A secret act carried out that is so embarrassing or awful that you will die before telling anyone what you did...even your closest friends.

This usually falls under the whole, "It sounded like a good idea at the time" deal. Luckily, there are no witnesses.

Destroying something by accident, the biggest lie one would ever tell or a sexual escapade that would bring down the furious wrath and ridicule of one's friends. Forever.
I will never speak of my sex-fest I had with the siamese twin midget transexuals I met at the circus. Although I enjoyed it, I'm keeping this story as a graver.
by beautifulbastard August 3, 2009
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A Tik Tok creator that worships Director John Johnson aka Dflicks.
Gravers are the most down to earth nicest people you’ll never meet.
by Boston Cream Donut April 15, 2021
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A douche lord who likes balls in and around his chin daily
That drunk guy at the skill game is acting like a graver!!
by Slick ram rider December 7, 2017
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