Going to Paramus 

Shamelessly seeking validation/adoration from anyone who will give it to you.

From the movie, "Soap Dish" in which Sally Field's character is feeling bad about herself, so she goes to the Garden State Plaza (a.k.a. Paramus Mall) to get recognized and adored by her fans.

Rose: "Give them my best in Paramus!"

"Did you see Madonna is doing a show in the Village?"
"Uh, oh, someone's going to Paramus..."

Going to Paramus by spittingkitty May 12, 2008