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An acronym for 'Elementary School Relationship'

An ESL is a relationship like one you would have had in elementary school. The couple probably passed notes, didn't talk very much in person and it's based on crushes who have confirmed they like each other.

Sometimes they hold hands, hug and maybe kiss, mostly on the cheek, head or hand. Otherwise there's not much physical contact.

If someone is in an ESL it means they're in a relationship that isn't going anywhere
OR

They're in the very early stages of a relationship.
"Aww, your 9 year old sister has her first boyfriend! What an ESR."

"Sam and Rachel just started dating. So far their in an ESR but im sure they will get to the action in about a week."

"Kelsey and Joe have been dating for 2 weeks already, they should have more than an ESR."
ESR by Honey_Honey February 26, 2010
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ESR (Emergency snot rocket) is a term used to announce to the surrounding people that you are doing a snot rocket to clear their nostrils of whatever is restricting them from breathing correctly.
“Hey guys, gonna do an ESR real quick wait up!”
ESR by Mountain987 July 2, 2022
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esra • ESRB • Esric • esrom • ESR • Esraa • Esrael • esrar • Esre • Esrever
Extra sex required
When your boyfriend claims to have blue balls
Babe, ESR I have blue balls you can’t just leave me hanging!!!
Esr by Cosmic.kitten03 March 28, 2023

AAA TO ESR 

What I call homo-sapiens who are addicted to abscesses.
Person 1: Are you addicted to abscesses?
Person 2: Yes.
Person 1: AAA TO ESR
AAA TO ESR by LeSouffleDeVersailles January 23, 2025
I ran my esrun script
esrun by Esrun August 21, 2006
An Esra is a beautiful girl. Her natural beauty makes everyone just feel jealous. She is the kind of energy that everyone needs in their life. She may be shy at first but once you get to know a Esra, you won’t regret it. She tries her best to make everyone happy and tries her hardest to make everyone feel included. Esra is not the typical girl and she enjoys some boyish activities: video games and sports. She may not like shopping but will go shopping with a friend to support them.
“Have you met Esra she’s the best”.

“I want to be friends with Esra

“Esra is the type of girl I see myself with”.
Esra by Truthspeaker21 July 13, 2018
Esra is a wonderful women/Girl

She has beautiful eyes, and when she's happy she glows. She can be a crazy person because she has a lot on her mind. Somethimes she forgets to calm and breathe. But she also knows how to relax good. She is a responsable person, she loves her siblings, and take goog care of them.

She has hard years behind her back, but she is living today on the fullest everyday.

She has a sense of humor and is sarcastic. She has sense of style and has her sexy looks. Once you'll get to know her very well, you will notice that she is also smart and has a sensitive side. Most of the time she is working hard.
She is a lot of things. You'll be happy to have her in your life. Because she treats the persons she likes very well.
Today Esra wants to quit her job, tomorrow she will go to work with full energy and be gratefull for everything.
Esra by TheTravelerx January 10, 2018
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