When a person in AA who has 1 year or more sober get's with someone who has less then one year sober.
...yeah man, Eddy got 20 years sober and Lisa got 30 days sober. He's tottally 13 stepping her. Dirty!
by youknowme2001 February 07, 2010
Did you see him with that girl, he's totally 13 stepping.
That guy in group is so hot but I don't want to be 13 stepping.
That guy in group is so hot but I don't want to be 13 stepping.
by kissy89 March 22, 2008
When a person of Alcoholics Anonymous has motives with another person (typically a newcomer) to take advantage of him/her for their personal gain. That advantage could be sex, financial or emotional. It often happens to newcomers who are open and trusting of the fellowship.
by The Deputy December 25, 2010
I was feeling vulnerable in an AA meeting when a sanctimonious, god squad prick 13 stepped me for a cheap fuck.
by Entym January 30, 2018
In 12-step fellowships, such as AA, 'step 13' is an informal way of refering to having sexual relationships with someone of the group
Joe: I just did Step 13 with Mary
Mike: Wait, I thought it was twelve steps?
Joe: I don't think you realize what the 13th step is...
Mike: Wait, I thought it was twelve steps?
Joe: I don't think you realize what the 13th step is...
by Phoenix732 March 13, 2017