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SAM stands for Smart-Assed Masochist, although it is not a necessary requirement to be a masochist to be a SAM, they are the brats of the submissive types in BDSM. Their role is often consisted of trying to provoke their dominant. Some SAMs are driven by the punishment, others by the pain. (Punishment in BDSM =/= Pain). A “bratty” submissive has a reputation for talking back, being disrespectful or mildly disobedient. On the surface, this is a negative quality in a submissive; however, a certain amount of “brattiness” is enjoyed by some Dominants, and may in fact be a large component of a power exchange relationship.

In other terms: submissive who exhibits bad behavior (such as sarcasm, talking back, or disobedience), either because her Dom enjoys it or to get attention.
Person I: So what role do you play?
Person II: I am a SAM.
Person I: Nice, I like that ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
SAM by xXTohruLoverXx December 22, 2019
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Sam can do tons of things like do sports and can be really smart
Sam by A person who typed this December 29, 2019
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A person who has a big head and a personality similar to a monkey
Sam by Sjgkavciow December 30, 2019
sam: a cross between simp and stan.
Otherwise known as the entire twitch moderator team
person 1:alinity fucked her dog again and still hasnt gotten banned
person 2: i know dude the entire twitch moderator team is just a bunch of fucking sams
sam by @yackyodd January 1, 2020
Sam is a crazy person and a great and caring friend. She will always look out for you and make sure you are ok. She is trustworthy and supportive. She will always try to embarrass you in a loving way and be the crackhead of the friend group

Love you Samantha ❤️
Wow she is such a Sam!
Sam by Lexi 🤡 January 4, 2020
Sam is a very kind heart warming boy, you would love to date him as he treats his friends and none friends and girls the same you will love him.Me and Sam has gotten closer threw out these years he’s like a brother to me I love him so much.You would be lucky if this wonderful cute boy would date you.💖💕
Sam is a cute loving boy who I love so much
Sam by Nasie NS voble January 5, 2020
He is the best
Sam by Iguggiuiug January 10, 2020