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Pick-Me Girl

A woman who puts down other women for the sake of male validation.

(I figured of yall needed the REAL definition since I've seen it been on ever girl that is even slightly attractive.)
"I'm like one of the guys so I don't have that many girl friends"

"I don't like wearing makeup because it's fake and I don't like being fake unlike most girls." - Said every Pick-Me Girl ever.
by luciaglossie May 3, 2022
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Pick Me Girl

A girl who is the opposite of the Imposter Syndrome Girl.

A Pick Me Girl feels no need to self-sabotage when blessings come her way. She is full of gratitude. She sees the excitement and beauty in each situation in life. And is not afraid to be selfish for such exciting and beautiful things.

Childlike, bold, go-getting, and full of self-love, she gleefully squeals “Pick me! Pick me! Pick me!” Over and over again

That is why she is called a Pick Me Girl
July 31 - It is Maria’s 5th birthday party. Her and her 5 friends are sitting on the living room carpet - Maria, Stephanie, Alyssa, Doug, Jack, Lindsey.
Maria’s mother ties a pastel blue balloon animal in the shape of a dog.
Maria’s mother: “Who wants this one—-?”
Stephanie: “Pick meeeeeEEEEEEE!!!!!”
Maria’s mother: “oh Stephanie! You are such a Pick Me girl!”

Example 2:

Karina: “Hey Julie, I have my first client as a Psychedelic Guide on Tuesday. I’m feeling imposter syndrome
Julie: “it’s normal to feel this way. Just remember the phrase Pick Me Girl.”
Karina: “Oh yeah!!!”
by Steph-Steph December 26, 2022
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Pick me Girl

Sexist and Misogynitic dog whistle, used as pejorative by women towards other women who disapprovingly seek male attention and acceptance. They use this to enforce a group think, and enforce an implied group idenity based on the and sex of the target of ridicule and contempt. It implies that womanhyood is some monolith of identity to which women must piosly obey. It insinuates that women must act and behave certain way, usually in ways approved by other women
She's always hanging around with guys. She is a Pick Me Girl.

Sandra, stood up for Brad in an argument. She's always defending guys. She's such a pick me girl.
by Zexx July 25, 2023
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Pick Me Girl

A woman who seeks male, or general validation by crying, making a scene, or just trying to be different.
Lynx from FN wiki
She tries to get everyone to like her by crying, she’s such a pick me girl
by Hahaha41641 December 19, 2022
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Pick Me Girl/Boy

A pick me girl is a girl who needs male approval in order to be "picked". It's hard to explain, so look in the examples for a better representation.

A pick me boy is a boy who typically uses these emojis :🥺😞, and makes reverse psychology remarks to make people feel bad for him in a a way.
Pick Me Girl/Boy
Girl 1: omg I have a big tummy.
Pick me girl: "sees a group of guys walking by"
Also pick me girl: Guys look! She's insecure about her body! Couldn't be me tho! I have an amazing body!
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Pick me girl: Hey guys sorry I couldn't play football with you today. *points to ankle brace* I twisted my ankle last night.
Also pick me girl: *walks into class perfectly fine with no brace the next day*
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Pick me girl: OMG Jason stopppp hehehehe! Jasonnn omgggg! Stoppp! *punches Jason's arm*
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Pick me boy texting a girl:
Hey -insert name- you looked amazing today at the assembly. I could never though, I'm so ugly!
Girl: oh uhh but you aren't ugly i guess.
Boy: :0 so you think I'm handsome?
Girl: What?? I never said that
Boy: oh.. so I'm ugly 😞🥺
Girl: what no 😐
Boy: so i'm hot?
Girl: -blocks-
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Pick me boy: Nice guys always finishes last
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Pick me boy listening to all girls are the same
sees a girl walking by
Pick me yells: ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME.
Girl; -changes her direction-
by ikimdumb :) March 11, 2021
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Biggest pick me girl

Giana Nasisi. Thats it.
sarah: “whos the biggest pick me girl?”
rory: giana nasisi
by notsaying123 June 29, 2021
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Pick me girl

Pick me girl is a girl who seeks attention fork boys and strives to hang out and talk with them constantly.
Don’t be a pick me girl like that girl Cooper over there.
by Jack Harlow March 29, 2021
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