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Flex

/flɛks/ (noun)Derived from English "Flexible". A homosexual slang mostly used in Malaysia

In male homosexual anal sex, a person who is comfortable, willing or enjoys being the receptive party (bottom) and/or the penetrative party (top). His exact role is not well determined and often times changes in order to complement or satisfy the other party or parties sexual desires. The flexibility of a person changing his sexual role according to the needs of his sexual partner or partners is where the term "flex" came from.

In other parts of the world, a more familiar term is "vers".
Here is what a typical Grindr conversation in Malaysia in its original text may look like:

BigDick7in: hi fun?
LastDay: t/b
BigDick7in: t
LastDay: sorry, I t too
BigDick7in: y u write flex? cibai!
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(DISCLAIMER: The English text shall be view as an approximate translation. Its accuracy is not guaranteed and shall not be used as reference in situations where absolute translation is required. It is done with speculation and may not reflect the true intentions of the users.)

BigDick7in: Good evening. I wonder if you are interested in having casual sexual intercourse with me?
LastDay: Before we proceed, would you care to share with me your preferred sexual role?
BigDick7in: Of course. As you may have already noticed my crass but yet frank handle, I enjoy having a bottom riding my stick.

LastDay: Thank you for clarifying. Unfortunately, I am not compatible as I cannot see myself being your sexual partner.

BigDick7in: Regrettably, I find the basis for your rejection hurtful and unreasonable, even though it's the same reason for me engaging you initially, albeit it's your positive sexual attractiveness. I resentfully advise you to not mislead people with your stated sexual role. I curse you that in lieu of a penis, a vagina is what you shall have!
by QuodScripsiScrpsi December 26, 2022
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state flexing

You snitching on everybody telling people business being a rat
John; I just snitched on them for selling to them guys over there
Lil Dopefiend: Bruh c'mon you always state flexing
by Lil Dopefiend February 24, 2020
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flex agains

Flex agains are boasters or big time braggers who always have proof to back it up
Ahh man here come this flex again showing off his new tesla sheesh he's always in somethin new

Flex agains - boasters or big time braggers who always have proof to back it up
by Treyyounggod October 18, 2018
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Kitty Flex

A kind of flex aiming to look cute and/or silly, similar to japanese cat motions.
goggle nyan and hope you find some girl acting like a cat? I can't really give a good example!
*kitty flex*
by Dannala January 8, 2011
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Flex mekanisem

That You Are doing Therese is a flex mekanisem
by Mrdrmd July 11, 2021
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Flex

Noun- a person who acts out in order to get attention
My bro: I heard Greg tried to do a backflip because he was in front of hella females and landed on his face

Me: yea he’s a flex
by Shlong dong daddy April 11, 2020
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Struggle Flexing

When two people talk about how hard their lives were and constantly trying to one up the other in how much of a struggle their life has been.
Yo I was listening to these two people struggle flexing on the bus ride home the other day.
by Philosophic2311 April 5, 2021
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