In the white American lexicon, this phrase means “the thing is” but has somehow transformed to include the word ‘is’ twice, colloquially.
by blacksnatch June 4, 2019

It’s the stage where you aren’t quite dating, but you’ve both established romantic feelings for each other. It’s exclusive but not official.
by advicegiver12 October 9, 2019

What happens when a character in a movie or tv show says the title of that movie/tv show in it. Also known as a Title Drop.
by Rice Menshorts November 3, 2013

by CalzonManchado February 19, 2017

by Sir Baby Loin March 9, 2003

by ProbablyAGhost September 1, 2016

Basically when two people are together, without the official title. Includes relationship-like habits, but an individual caught up in "a thing" with someone is technically single. It is often the step before a relationship.
1. PersonA: are John and Sarah dating?
PersonB: They have a thing / thinging.
2. Sarah: why are you talking to Jasmine all the time?
John: chill out, you're not my girlfriend, I do what I want.
PersonB: They have a thing / thinging.
2. Sarah: why are you talking to Jasmine all the time?
John: chill out, you're not my girlfriend, I do what I want.
by Baqala April 13, 2014
