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Flex

/flɛks/ (noun)Derived from English "Flexible". A homosexual slang mostly used in Malaysia

In male homosexual anal sex, a person who is comfortable, willing or enjoys being the receptive party (bottom) and/or the penetrative party (top). His exact role is not well determined and often times changes in order to complement or satisfy the other party or parties sexual desires. The flexibility of a person changing his sexual role according to the needs of his sexual partner or partners is where the term "flex" came from.

In other parts of the world, a more familiar term is "vers".
Here is what a typical Grindr conversation in Malaysia in its original text may look like:

BigDick7in: hi fun?
LastDay: t/b
BigDick7in: t
LastDay: sorry, I t too
BigDick7in: y u write flex? cibai!
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(DISCLAIMER: The English text shall be view as an approximate translation. Its accuracy is not guaranteed and shall not be used as reference in situations where absolute translation is required. It is done with speculation and may not reflect the true intentions of the users.)

BigDick7in: Good evening. I wonder if you are interested in having casual sexual intercourse with me?
LastDay: Before we proceed, would you care to share with me your preferred sexual role?
BigDick7in: Of course. As you may have already noticed my crass but yet frank handle, I enjoy having a bottom riding my stick.

LastDay: Thank you for clarifying. Unfortunately, I am not compatible as I cannot see myself being your sexual partner.

BigDick7in: Regrettably, I find the basis for your rejection hurtful and unreasonable, even though it's the same reason for me engaging you initially, albeit it's your positive sexual attractiveness. I resentfully advise you to not mislead people with your stated sexual role. I curse you that in lieu of a penis, a vagina is what you shall have!
by QuodScripsiScrpsi December 26, 2022
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flex agains

Flex agains are boasters or big time braggers who always have proof to back it up
Ahh man here come this flex again showing off his new tesla sheesh he's always in somethin new

Flex agains - boasters or big time braggers who always have proof to back it up
by Treyyounggod October 18, 2018
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Flexes

"she flexes her power and success with a flick of her diamond-braceleted wrist"
by Arminkshipper June 18, 2025
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Kitty Flex

A kind of flex aiming to look cute and/or silly, similar to japanese cat motions.
goggle nyan and hope you find some girl acting like a cat? I can't really give a good example!
*kitty flex*
by Dannala January 8, 2011
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Flex Boi

A gay kid that you should stay away from or he will try to rape you.
Stay away from Flex Boi.
by Flex Boi October 16, 2019
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Gym Flexing

When some one is acting like they can do something, when damn well you know they can't, Just to make themselves look good
Yo stop gym flexing, you know you can't lift 200 lbs
by KingMonteiro July 21, 2015
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Peibal Flex

In League of Legends, the champion that can be flexed in the current meta, but in your team is clearly inflexible.
Blue team: Damn, they R4 Kennen, lets pick KSante!
(Red team locks Volibear top)
Blue team: Oh god, they Peibal flexed us...
by CaraTaquilla May 22, 2024
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