Backseat wanker

In essence, calling someone a "backseat wanker" suggests that they are not actively participating or contributing, instead, they are being unhelpful or critical from a position of relative ease or distance, akin to someone sitting idly in the backseat of a car while others do the work of driving. It's a derogatory term used to criticize someone's behaviour or attitude.

Let's say a group of friends is working on a project together, and they're all brainstorming ideas and putting in effort to get the work done. One person, let's call him John, sits back and offers no suggestions, doesn't contribute any work, and just criticizes the ideas and efforts of others without offering any constructive input. John is essentially being a "backseat wanker" in this scenario, as he's not actively participating in the group's efforts but is quick to criticize from the sidelines without offering any meaningful contribution himself.

by chaise longue April 9, 2024

backseat all star

A shorty that is down for anything in the back seat of your vehicle 💦

One man's 6 month talking stage is another man's 1st link Backseat All Star. The game is wicked

by ModernInka April 13, 2024

BackStabee

The person who is/was backstabbed

My friends call me durogatory terms behind my back, I am a backstabee.

by Mayorhuggs April 29, 2024

Backstabotage

When an individual is deliberately put in a situation that cannot lead to success, and subsequently, receives negative comments from the planner of the scheme behind their back with the aim of benefiting the perpetrator by harming the victim.

Tina wanted her friend to come work for her so she backstabotaged Keith to get him fired so there would be an opening. Keth found out her friend was in on it all along and was devastated.

by KMH808 May 28, 2024

Backstabotage

When an individual is deliberately put in a situation that cannot lead to success, and subsequently, receives negative comments from the planner of the scheme behind their back with the aim of benefiting the perpetrator by harming the victim.

"Did you hear Keith was let go? Tina Backstabotaged him... She wanted her friend to come work for her so she got him fired so there would be an opening."

by KMH808 May 28, 2024

backseat are my favourite

To love engaging in anal activities

On our first date she told me "backseat are my favourite"

by Onlinegypsy June 26, 2024

Backseat Girlfriend

The term "backseat girlfriend" typically refers to a relationship dynamic where one partner is not fully prioritized or is treated as secondary, often being kept at a distance while the other partner engages with someone else or focuses on other aspects of their life. This phrase can imply that the person in the "backseat" role is not actively involved in decision-making or significant events in their partner's life, akin to a passenger rather than a co-pilot.

Cid: "The killer used a different type of playing card to describe each of its victims.'
Alexia: "Ha Ha. You're still the same useless little pooch (Cid). Aren't you?"
Cid: "Miss Alexia, what's with the sudden backseat girlfriend behavior?"

by TheToesKnows December 3, 2024