It is what it is

Fuck what it was. Fuck what it could’ve been.

#1 Friend: I’m sorry it didn’t work out, I really thought she’d be the one for you.

You: it is what it is

by Rouxchui January 24, 2021

It is what it is

"Can't change the past." It is what it is. "This happen to whoever." It is what it is. A saying all should live by.

Friend 1: my partner cheated on me with

you and I didn't know about it

until I cheated on them with

you?? Wtf??

Friend 2: It is what it is. Chill.

by Anonymous_2.0 November 25, 2021

It is what it is

Acceptance of the inevitable and what you have no control over.

"My wife is suing me for divorce."
"Well, it is what it is."

by wordlady1 March 02, 2018

it is what it is

the best way for someone to show that they are drained mentally emotionally and physically

friend: are you okay?

y/n: it is what it is

by big throwa November 04, 2023

It is what it is

A covert way of telling someone you’re in love with them

I know we haven’t dated long, but I think it is what it is.

by The real Joe Rogan May 22, 2020

It is what it is

I’m in love with you

When a man wants to tell a woman he is in love with her but can’t

“I know we’ve only been dating a short time but it is what it is.”

by The real Joe Rogan May 22, 2020

It is what it is

I'm in so much pain rn

"The sun is going to explode in a peta billion fart years from now...it is what it is."

by Sbreg August 11, 2022