See: Beta AF.
Fuckboy, the spiritually enlightened edition.
Wannabe alpha, self-proclaimed “open curious wanderer,” low-effort bro. Heard the term “flow state” on a Michael Pollen podcast and decided it was high vibration. Into microdosing, saunas, and DMT vape. Brags Alpha pics, sends wishy-washy word salad when pressed for integrity. College degree for weed startup or crypto tech gig puts him one notch above a wook. Flashy style, vanilla essence. Wants hookups, claims ENM but avoids vulnerability and upfront communication. High-grade women on hold, too scared to level up. Shady about consent, deflects responsibility, expects woman to initiate everything, then uses it to dodge accountability. Congruence makes him cringe. Fears exposure, panic-blocks to stop panty-dropper drought. Local Burner with sacred ink, yet clueless on Hermetics. Unfollowing a tantra account is more taboo than healing his porn addiction. A mirage of cool, lacks adversity to expand true wisdom. Scared manboy whose self worth relies on superficial sex romps.
Fuckboy, the spiritually enlightened edition.
Wannabe alpha, self-proclaimed “open curious wanderer,” low-effort bro. Heard the term “flow state” on a Michael Pollen podcast and decided it was high vibration. Into microdosing, saunas, and DMT vape. Brags Alpha pics, sends wishy-washy word salad when pressed for integrity. College degree for weed startup or crypto tech gig puts him one notch above a wook. Flashy style, vanilla essence. Wants hookups, claims ENM but avoids vulnerability and upfront communication. High-grade women on hold, too scared to level up. Shady about consent, deflects responsibility, expects woman to initiate everything, then uses it to dodge accountability. Congruence makes him cringe. Fears exposure, panic-blocks to stop panty-dropper drought. Local Burner with sacred ink, yet clueless on Hermetics. Unfollowing a tantra account is more taboo than healing his porn addiction. A mirage of cool, lacks adversity to expand true wisdom. Scared manboy whose self worth relies on superficial sex romps.
Flow boy: “I never said I was looking for a relationship of any sort so I don’t think I misrepresented anything. I was just going with the flow and mindful not to direct things that way.”
After stating your boundaries that you don’t do casual, the flow boy proceeds to come over, hold a conversation about his therapy and attachment styles, leading you to believe he has evolved, and gets all kissy touchy on the couch leading to oral sex. A week later he has to be prompted for a follow up convo in which he replies, “I just like living life and flowing. I don’t have an issue with causal and I like hooking up with you, so it’s on you to be in control of your boundaries.” Not understanding he just overstepped your stated boundaries.
When pressed for clarity a flow boy is known to reply, “This feels really heavy and accusatory and I don't have space for it. I’m doing ENM with a few close friends now. It started a bit after we met up for the record. I can’t just change my disposition for you because this works for me right now. No one is in the wrong, we can all live how we want to live.”
After stating your boundaries that you don’t do casual, the flow boy proceeds to come over, hold a conversation about his therapy and attachment styles, leading you to believe he has evolved, and gets all kissy touchy on the couch leading to oral sex. A week later he has to be prompted for a follow up convo in which he replies, “I just like living life and flowing. I don’t have an issue with causal and I like hooking up with you, so it’s on you to be in control of your boundaries.” Not understanding he just overstepped your stated boundaries.
When pressed for clarity a flow boy is known to reply, “This feels really heavy and accusatory and I don't have space for it. I’m doing ENM with a few close friends now. It started a bit after we met up for the record. I can’t just change my disposition for you because this works for me right now. No one is in the wrong, we can all live how we want to live.”
by Alpha_Analog_Bish January 20, 2024
Catching your big O flow, often referred to as finding one's optimal state of productivity, creativity, or well-being, can indeed be a transformative experience. Imagine a moment when everything in your life aligns perfectly, allowing you to perform at your absolute best. This phenomenon is akin to a musician finding the perfect rhythm, a writer whose words flow effortlessly onto the page, or an athlete who enters "the zone," where every move they make is precise and powerful. It's a state of being where time seems to stand still, and you're completely immersed in the task at hand, delivering results that sometimes even surprise you.
Incorporating the wisdom of Mahatma Gandhi and Buddha into the narrative of catching your big O flow enriches the understanding of this state with profound philosophical insights. Gandhi, known for his teachings on peace, perseverance, and living with purpose, once said, "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." This quote underscores the idea that finding one’s optimal flow often involves transcending personal desires and focusing on contributing positively to the lives of others. Buddha's teachings on mindfulness and the nature of suffering provide another layer of depth to the concept of the big O flow. He stated, "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
Incorporating the wisdom of Mahatma Gandhi and Buddha into the narrative of catching your big O flow enriches the understanding of this state with profound philosophical insights. Gandhi, known for his teachings on peace, perseverance, and living with purpose, once said, "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others." This quote underscores the idea that finding one’s optimal flow often involves transcending personal desires and focusing on contributing positively to the lives of others. Buddha's teachings on mindfulness and the nature of suffering provide another layer of depth to the concept of the big O flow. He stated, "Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment."
by notOneverO February 29, 2024
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by JewBerg November 01, 2017
How much of a bro someone with a gnarly flow really is. Usually measured on a scale of 1-10. A bro who lands himself a 10 would often be considered head of dudes in most scenarios requiring some sort of leadership and would be conidered a bro by everyone. The ratio in written form would be whatever number the bro achieves followed by a ":" and then the word flow. Ex. 6:Flow
Bro 1: Dude, that bro has some gnarly locks..
Bro 2: I agree but ive talked to him before and his flow-to-bro ratio is only like 4:flow.
Bro 1: Thats too bad, I thought he would be more of a bro...
Bro 2: I agree but ive talked to him before and his flow-to-bro ratio is only like 4:flow.
Bro 1: Thats too bad, I thought he would be more of a bro...
by Fruitsnackstothemax July 10, 2013
a personality trait of, type of behavior in which one represents themselves as being "down with the dirty south".
Usually identifiable by a certain swagger, or self confidence , which exemplifies being down with the south and proud of it, and not particularly fond of Northern culture/ way of life. People with southernly flow usually express them selves with the way they dress and talk and generally have interests in things that one might call southern. This is not to be confused with redneck in anyway, A redneck could have southernly flow or not, even a highly educated individual such as a doctor could posses southernly flow, southernly flow is commonly shown off by ninjas, overall having southernly flow is closely related to southern hospitality but has more to do with how a person carries themselves with that hospitality. Overall dudes it just means your down with the south and like it. This also could just mean you have a stinky futon laying around somewhere and you go to class with bed head and stuff.
Usually identifiable by a certain swagger, or self confidence , which exemplifies being down with the south and proud of it, and not particularly fond of Northern culture/ way of life. People with southernly flow usually express them selves with the way they dress and talk and generally have interests in things that one might call southern. This is not to be confused with redneck in anyway, A redneck could have southernly flow or not, even a highly educated individual such as a doctor could posses southernly flow, southernly flow is commonly shown off by ninjas, overall having southernly flow is closely related to southern hospitality but has more to do with how a person carries themselves with that hospitality. Overall dudes it just means your down with the south and like it. This also could just mean you have a stinky futon laying around somewhere and you go to class with bed head and stuff.
"Yo man look at that dude brah with the southernly flow, the bro means straight business."
"Hey man I see you keepin it real with that Southernly flow of yours"
"Man that kids got so much southernly flow a hippo would not even think of messin with him, but damn all them hoes sure do."
Dude ! that chick is bangin man definitely got that southernly flow goin on.
"Na man your not down with the South you ain't got no Southernly flow about you man."
"Hey man I see you keepin it real with that Southernly flow of yours"
"Man that kids got so much southernly flow a hippo would not even think of messin with him, but damn all them hoes sure do."
Dude ! that chick is bangin man definitely got that southernly flow goin on.
"Na man your not down with the South you ain't got no Southernly flow about you man."
by ninja dude brah April 03, 2008