A guy who always gets the short end of the
stick and "finishes" last and is often overlooked by women and never really appreciated by the woman of his interest, no matter what he does. Women don’t often think of him as being much more than just a good friend; they only rely on him to listen to their problems or to hang out with, but would never consider dating him. He has a hard
time getting a girlfriend because, God forbid, he has average looks with an average physique, and she would rather date a handsome dumb
jock with a nice
car, who treats her terribly, than to date an average guy. He frequently gets rejected by women because they are driven by their self-centeredness and superficiality, and don’t realize that he is the man of her dreams and right in front of her. In his childhood he was probably one of the last kids to be picked on the team to play kickball when he was a good
player. And he
may have even been bullied as a
kid. The nice guy is probably a lonely person who just wants to fall in love and get married like everyone else, but for some reason women and
people miss out on who he is. As a result of his lonliness and his natural need for sex and intimacy and relationships, he will get off on himself, only wishing he could share his life and body with the woman of his dreams. He probably has a lot of lonely nights, and the only
time a woman sleeps with him or ever finds him attractive is because she is
drunk. The nice guy will genuinely go out of his way to help the
girl he has an interest in, but in the end his favors are disregarded. A nice guy always finishes last after bullies, jocks, jerks and rich guys. Evidently, his trustworthiness, honesty and commitment are only secondary to looks, money, and materialism. The interesting thing is that when women get depressed and stressed out being involved with the bad
men, they always come back to the nice guy to help them.....until the process starts over again. And then, after decades of being in bad relationships, these same women are all-of-sudden 60-yrs old and
single or divorced and wonder why they couldn’t find
true love and the man of their dreams, when he was under their nose the whole
time.
Basically, a nice guy is the worst insult a guy can receive by the
girl he is interested in. It means “you are good enough to talk to and to get to know on a superficial basis out of convenience, but not good enough to get to know on a deeper level or to date.” When the girl I liked talked about me and
said I was a “nice guy” to her female friends, I knew my chances of
dating her were minute. Being called a “nice guy” is anything but a complement and makes me feel sad.