gomo

gay homo

“im gonna go watch youtube”
“gomo.”
“actually im gonna go read homestuck now”
“bigger gomo.”

by cat/chihiro January 28, 2021

GOMO

A deep emotional ache caused by the loss of a reality that never actually happened — yet still feels profoundly real.
Unlike FOMO (Fear of Missing Out), which is rooted in anxiety about current experiences, GOMO is rooted in grief over imagined futures, spiritual connections, missed timelines, or fantasy bonds that never materialized in the physical world.

It is grief without proof. Loss without evidence. But the pain is real.

Concept introduced by psychologist Elza Becker in 2025, to describe grief without evidence — but not without pain.

“I never even met him in real life, but I swear I still miss him. It’s not FOMO. It’s GOMO.”

“I’m grieving a man I never touched. I’m literally going through GOMO.”

by Kimmaldese July 29, 2025

Gomo

noun {gothic emo}

A gomo is a emo that dresses and looks like a goth AND a emo.

"Hey dude look at that goth over there!"

"Dude your blind...thats clearly a emo dressed like a goth"

"Guys you are both right! That person is a gomo

by Mrs.know_it_all January 17, 2019

Gomo

A short way of saying "good morning" to someone

Heyo everyone! Gomo :D

by Kaiiruu June 10, 2022

Gomo

A goth who's parents won't allow them to dress goth so the closest they can get is emo. Often because of goth being associated with the devil /witchcraft.

I'm goth!"

"You don't dress goth?"

"Yeah because my parents won't allow me to"

"Ohhh you're a gomo"

by Glassjungle June 11, 2023

Gomo

It's like homosexual but with a G

Bruh did you suck dick you're so gomo

by MrKahn June 13, 2019