(TOCKS ick GUM bow) adj. in reference to the foul, fetid, putrid, industrially polluted, bloated corpse filled flood waters that innundated 'soup bowl' shaped New Orleans for weeks after the damage from Hurricane Katrina caused the unsafe levee system to fail miserably
evacuee on roof 1: Gee, I wouldn't drink that water if I were you.
evacuee on roof 2: Why not? I'm thirsty as hell.
evacuee on roof 1: It looks like toxic gumbo to me. Wait for FEMA to rescue us. They'll be here soon.
evacuee on roof 2: I think I saw them over at the nursing home.
evacuee on roof 2: Why not? I'm thirsty as hell.
evacuee on roof 1: It looks like toxic gumbo to me. Wait for FEMA to rescue us. They'll be here soon.
evacuee on roof 2: I think I saw them over at the nursing home.
by Nedd Ludd October 10, 2005
Get the toxic gumbomug. A ninja that uses poisons and toxins to kill his targets. Think a smokebomb full of mustard gas, or poisoning drinks, poison dipped weapons, etc.
Guy1: Hey why are you vomiting blood?
Guy2: Toxic Ninja poisoned my drink, if I die tell my girlfriend I love her.
Guy1: Don't worry, I'll tell her I love her.
Guy2: Wut?
Guy2: Toxic Ninja poisoned my drink, if I die tell my girlfriend I love her.
Guy1: Don't worry, I'll tell her I love her.
Guy2: Wut?
by Toxic Ninja January 17, 2008
Get the Toxic Ninjamug. In contrast to some of the other idiotic definitions. Toxic Masculinity is the societal expectation that males are suppose to represent "manhood" which can cause them to become violent, aggressive, manipulative, unsympathetic, and unemotional. This mentality causes a lot of males to subconsciously see women as sex objects to dominate over instead of having a mutual relationship, which can cause rapes to happen. Toxic Masculinity also forces males to not show any emotions including crying or asking for help. This is why males are almost twice as likely commit suicide than females, all because they were told to "suck it up" or "be a man" throughout their entire life.
Anybody who says that toxic masculinity doesn't exist is only supporting this destructive mindset and is too afraid to speak up about what's really going on. So please SPEAK UP!!!
(written by a male)
(written by a male)
by Dubiks February 3, 2019
Get the Toxic Masculinitymug. A phenomenon observed by sociologists, anthroplogists, feminists, etc., in which ideals attributed to hyper-masculinity/machismo culture cause detriment to society.
While it's understood that society's less advantaged (i.e., the disabled, the homeless, children, women, refugees, et al) incur significant hardship owing to toxic masculinity, its perpetuation also renders men themselves into a state of loneliness.
Expressions of toxic masculinity include "edgy" jokes (which oftentimes lack a punchline yet functionally devalue the joke's target) bullying (both cyber as well as IRL), "brutish" masculinity (counter to the much healthier *embracing* masculinity), misogyny, victim blaming, unsolicited sexualization, exploitation, violence, one-upping, the entire "incel" community, and much of the hostility demonstrated in gaming culture.
In other words, if a man is embodying the "class clown" stereotype as an adult, he's typically exhibiting masculinity of a more toxic nature.
Ultimately, wars are historically started by men (i.e., those in power), while the threat of women in power (e.g., Hilary Clinton, Kamala Harris) draws unapologetically misogynistic remarks.
Meanwhile, women can and do demonstrate and perpetuate toxic masculinity themselves. Observed exacerbation of the phenomenon of toxic masculinity may be attributed to increasing knowledge surrounding its existence or of society's progressive feminization (e.g., interconnectedness and openness to self-expression).
While it's understood that society's less advantaged (i.e., the disabled, the homeless, children, women, refugees, et al) incur significant hardship owing to toxic masculinity, its perpetuation also renders men themselves into a state of loneliness.
Expressions of toxic masculinity include "edgy" jokes (which oftentimes lack a punchline yet functionally devalue the joke's target) bullying (both cyber as well as IRL), "brutish" masculinity (counter to the much healthier *embracing* masculinity), misogyny, victim blaming, unsolicited sexualization, exploitation, violence, one-upping, the entire "incel" community, and much of the hostility demonstrated in gaming culture.
In other words, if a man is embodying the "class clown" stereotype as an adult, he's typically exhibiting masculinity of a more toxic nature.
Ultimately, wars are historically started by men (i.e., those in power), while the threat of women in power (e.g., Hilary Clinton, Kamala Harris) draws unapologetically misogynistic remarks.
Meanwhile, women can and do demonstrate and perpetuate toxic masculinity themselves. Observed exacerbation of the phenomenon of toxic masculinity may be attributed to increasing knowledge surrounding its existence or of society's progressive feminization (e.g., interconnectedness and openness to self-expression).
Pick-up artist culture oftentimes entails vocally degrading women, all while portraying/objectifying women as a material prize or achievement. It fails to acknowledge women as individuals whatsoever and in turn qualifies as an expression of toxic masculinity.
by callmeMorgan December 8, 2021
Get the Toxic Masculinitymug. Military term used to describe a type of leadership that gets short term results. A toxic leader is usually in good shape and let's everyone know it. He will often hold his personal physical fitness gains above your head.
A toxic leader is also known to use intimidation and threats to achieve their endgame. These leaders will also tend to be of a different racial background then Caucasian and therefore utilize equal opportunity threats to keep you on your toes.
Toxic leaders have a secret love for "gingers" or amazingly strong, beautiful, and intelligent red haired individuals.
Also referred to as infections, brutal, blind, or Shedrick leadership.
A toxic leader is also known to use intimidation and threats to achieve their endgame. These leaders will also tend to be of a different racial background then Caucasian and therefore utilize equal opportunity threats to keep you on your toes.
Toxic leaders have a secret love for "gingers" or amazingly strong, beautiful, and intelligent red haired individuals.
Also referred to as infections, brutal, blind, or Shedrick leadership.
Hey bro have you talked to that new NCO at the aid station?
Yeah I talked with him this morning he just kept going on about how jacked up everyone is and his pt score. He's a total Shedrick.
All we get here lately is toxic leadership
Yeah I talked with him this morning he just kept going on about how jacked up everyone is and his pt score. He's a total Shedrick.
All we get here lately is toxic leadership
by TexasGinger December 24, 2013
Get the Toxic leadershipmug. When his tongue game is so good it makes you want to ruin your life, but he's so toxic you just cant... or can you?😏
Emily: jerry just hit me up again
Steph: girl you finna get a toxic tongueing
Emily: i knowww im screaming!
Steph: girl you finna get a toxic tongueing
Emily: i knowww im screaming!
by Master_chf October 9, 2020
Get the Toxic tongueingmug. In family a toxic relationship could be seen as the member of the family using words or reminders of something that they’ve done for you to coax you into doing things that would only benefit them , they make you feel you owe it to them.these are people if you say no to you would feel hurt by it ex: mom or dad). In friendship a toxic relationship is chaotic,because you have an emotional bond towards them you constantly do things that they like putting they’re likes and dislikes before your own if you fall into these types of relationships it is possible you’ve had problems making friends in the past and is terrified of loosing the connection.intimate relationship toxicity can be very complicated.at first it isn’t visible it may become visible when they call you names or make you dress down . you love your partner so you’re willing to take any abuse thrown at you .mental, emotional or physical abuse. They revolve solely on sexual intimacy or providing your partner with wants such as food, housing , money.In a toxic intimate relationship you’re willing to give up your everything just to please your other even if your breaking your core values.Its possible that in all three toxic relationships neither of the pairs realize it’s toxic ,they feel that it is completely normal what they are asking for or what is being asked of them because of personal experience or they believe that its how they keep their relationship together .
“What you’re mother ask of you isn’t right and the way you comply isn’t either , you two are in a toxic relationship “
by anonymous April 17, 2022
Get the Toxic relationshipmug.