A fat or otherwise ugly female who associates with loser gay men. She is shunned by all gay men with any dignity or self-respect.
by Hater101 November 6, 2008

A woman, usually overweight, who almost exclusively seeks the company of gay men, often mistaking their friendship for a romantic relationship. They have a defective gaydar.
Rhonda was shocked to walk in on Steve and his boyfriend Brian in bed, thinking all this time Steve didn't try to have sex with her because he was just a nice guy.
by Shack December 4, 2004

by magicant July 15, 2005

1. a male homosexual in a woman's body.
2. An apparently straight woman of low sex drive who subconciously desires to be a gay man. Rarely does the deep seated fantasy to be a gay man reach the concious level but is generally manifested as non-sexual intimacy with a homosexual male partner. Rarely, if ever, do fag hags pursue gender re-assignement surgery as to do so would fulfill the fantasy; and an integral part of the fag hag identity is the frustration inherent in her fantasy. And to do so would create the assumed requirement of sexual intimacy with a gay man.
Generally, but not always, used disparagingly
2. An apparently straight woman of low sex drive who subconciously desires to be a gay man. Rarely does the deep seated fantasy to be a gay man reach the concious level but is generally manifested as non-sexual intimacy with a homosexual male partner. Rarely, if ever, do fag hags pursue gender re-assignement surgery as to do so would fulfill the fantasy; and an integral part of the fag hag identity is the frustration inherent in her fantasy. And to do so would create the assumed requirement of sexual intimacy with a gay man.
Generally, but not always, used disparagingly
The fag hag anticipated going on the vacation and having Jeff all to herself away from the distraction of all his gay beddies.
by d maxwell June 11, 2006

A temporary condition usually afflicting young, urban, immature western females. This conditions lasts from a couple of months to a couple of years. Ask any homosexual, they come, they go. A few months of the empty, gay lifestyle will serve as a growing experience and the fag hag will mature and move on to "grown up" relationships.
Bruce: Hey Brian, new fag hag? What happend to your last hag, Lisa?
Brian: Lisa was a few hags ago. Now she is married and has a good job.
Bruce: Oh, well... I never liked here anyway.
Brian: Yea, shes such a bitch.
Brian: Lisa was a few hags ago. Now she is married and has a good job.
Bruce: Oh, well... I never liked here anyway.
Brian: Yea, shes such a bitch.
by VGuy December 28, 2005

Usually a gay man or woman who is a close friend and supporter of confident, sexy, self-loving big girls.
by Fattie Lovings September 26, 2012

by Captain Bangyermomma February 11, 2020
