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Pick-me

A girl or boy (usually a girl) who acts like she doesn't need help, but then makes a "mistake" because she or he wants attention. A pick-me is also very dramatic.
Pick-me: "Hi!"

Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"

Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"

Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"

Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"

Person 1: "What?!"

Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"

Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
by i.like.cats December 11, 2023
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A pick me is someone who will most likely change her personality for someone of the opposite gender
afraid: hi nitbag
tara: omg pick me chose me love me
afraid: arent you 19.....
by reyy. December 9, 2022
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another type of pick me is trying to get people to comfort you/feel sorry for you

they also try to make everything about themselves & make sad excuses for everything bad they do.
pick me: I'm so ugly ill never be pretty, your so pretty why cant I be like you?

person: omg i'm so sorry! your beautiful and amazing!

another version:

person: why did you slap someone?

pick me: I didn't mean to, my dog just died and ive been bullied for the past 5 years :(

person: oh my! I'm so sorry I shouldn't of said that I didn't know what you were going through!

pick me: I deserve it, I'm so ugly and i'm such a nerd, no one will ever like me.
by 564nuggets December 11, 2021
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Pick Me Girl

Breana is such a pick me girl
by kiinnitt March 7, 2022
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sam avnet
sam avnet aka the definition of a pick me girl
by sigmanusocial December 3, 2023
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Leanne Jolie Ortega-Wolfsberger (Lolo)
Leanne is so pick me
by snotpickme June 23, 2022
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Pick me

Usage:
Shaming:
Any loving a man female being shamed by the seething flock of arrogant/snobbish control freak women - she doesn't place above him. (her commitment to the daily choice to love = loyally serving/submitting/tolerating/etc being useful to him - to add to his life, not harm it; not having others on the same level or above him in any way)
Anyone on any level sub to man or not hating men - supportive and pleasing to be with, instead of: impudent, greedy, demanding, egotistical, hedonistic, hubristic, transactional, harmful.. - overall repulsive, expecting simping/slaving for them.
Pecking at her like chickens; because - themselves don't really love men if not despise, but want to manipulatively impose control upon them (it's all the projections they say about men, but in reverse, being a twisted, incapable of empathy, parody on masculine herself), placing their flock of women above the man.
From either leftover women or insecure women with (naturally too empathetically biased for fem) men they've 'trained' to be an expendable utility. Destructive to any other relationship, that doesn't give them attention or follow imposed template - normalizing hers, they'd probably call you that.
Popularized on tiktok - a mental institution catalog / personal diary of deranged women.

Hypocrisy call-out:
Virtue signaling female, that fakes to love a man for attention or other gain - similar to thot/tradthot. Like looking for soft life pseudo-trad bimbo-for-hire gold diggers.
- You're such a sycophant pick me girl.
- At least I don't hate men.
by veinsofgold April 27, 2025
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