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410

"If you want me to, I can trust you"

often used by someone with trust issues (sometimes paired with 410). While it sounds romantic, it creates conditional trust. It shifts the responsibility onto the other person, implying that trust is a favor being granted or a permission slip, rather than a natural feeling of safety and character recognition.
I love that we are committed to growing together, but I don't want you to trust me just because I 'want' you to. I want you to trust me because you actually feel safe with me. Trust isn't a permission slip I give you; it’s a feeling you develop on your own.

I want your trust, but only if it’s genuine. 410 637
by Mi & Your♾️Fantasia January 4, 2026
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Rule 410

Rule 410 of the Internet: If it exists, there's Gen Alpha brainrot of it.
Jim: Aw man, there's Gen Alpha brainrot of (insert popular animation/game)
Bob: Rule 410 strikes again.
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Rule 410

Rule 410 of the internet: If it exists, there's Gen Alpha brainrot of it. No exceptions.
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Bob: Rule 410, man.
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410 Protocol

The act of offering a "conditional olive branch" in a damaged relationship. It is the transition from total detachment to cautious vulnerability. It represents the moment one person decides to stop being the only one "breaking the ice" and demands that trust be earned through consistency rather than just words. It is not an act of weakness but a final invitation for the other person to step up.

I can trust you, if you want me to... is a consent to give it another chance together. Given the circumstances to date there's nothing to base unconditional trust on... when an invitation is given its genuine... to test iced waters, somebody has to break the ice. Trust builds with time just as love does with understanding and consistency. Its not that i dont want to do it BUT will only for your sake. Its more that you need to give me the love, understanding, consistency in actions (if you want me) to build that trust back.
“I’m tired of the back-and-forth, so I’m giving the 410 protocol. The ice is broken but if you want to stay in the water, you have to start swimming. My love and trust when given are always exclusive and genuine.
by Love you too January 18, 2026
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Protocol 410

He initiated Protocol 410 wanting her to swim, realizing too late she was already the ocean keeping him afloat.
You ask for consistency as if I haven't been the constant heartbeat while you drifted away.

You ask me to "start swimming" as if I haven't been treading water in your storms, refusing to let us drown, even when you pushed me under with silence.

I am not the one who turned cold. I am not the one who blocks.
My olive branch has been extended for a long time, held by a hand that never stopped reaching for you.

I accept your Protocol 410, not as an admission of guilt, but as a testament to my endurance.
I will show you the consistency you claim to want, but you must open your eyes to see it.

Trust is not built by testing someone until they break; it is built by letting them in.
I am in the water. I have always been in the water.
Stop fighting the current and swim with me.
Unblock the flow.
by Mi & Your♾️Fantasia January 23, 2026
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