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Pick Me

A woman who puts/talks down on other women in order to make herself seem better.
"It's shameful how Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B have no respect for themselves," Amy sighed, watching the two women perform W.A.P at the 2021's Grammys, "They are hardly wearing clothes and have the audacity to dance like this on national television. And seeing how women strive to be them, looks like I'll be the only women left to truly love and respect myself."

"Amy, please go to hell and stop being a Pick Me," her friend, Joselin replied.
by titi_kusha April 16, 2022
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Pick Me

A woman who puts/talks down on other women in order to make herself seem better.
"It's shameful how Megan Thee Stallion and Cardi B have no respect for themselves," Amy sighed, watching the two women perform W.A.P at the 2021's Grammys, "They are hardly wearing clothes and have the audacity to dance like this on national television. And seeing how women strive to be them, looks like I'll be the only women left to truly love and respect myself."

"Amy, please go to hell and stop being a Pick Me," her friend, Joselin replied.
by titi_kusha April 16, 2022
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Pick Me Girl

Molly Fellenz in a nut shell
I shouldn’t need to list a reason you know why Molly is a pick me girl
by Cam_Daddy April 18, 2022
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pick me

A girl who craves attention, is clingy. She decides to be a total arse to people, and then plays the victim.
Wow, Marcie is such a fucking pick me girl. I hate her guts.
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Pick Me BF

Pick Me Boyfriend

A pick me boyfriend is one who only does an action only if they agree with it. If they don’t agree with an action, they will act confused and refuse. They will further victimize themselves by saying it’s the girlfriends fault for asking. They may further blame the girlfriend for voicing what she wants if she responds with anger or ignores in retaliation to boyfriends refusal. On the frequent occasion, as argument is in transit, boyfriend may say the girlfriend isn't a good communicator.

A pick me boyfriend requires numerous reminders 1-20+ times before considering an action. He will say you nag too much for his inability to do something the first time it’s said. We have wonderful men in government and business which require swift action, but he will require 1-20+ reminders to say you’re nagging. He will make you praise him for finally building up the motivation to do said reminder.

Ex. Girlfriend asks boyfriend to help with the dishes. Boyfriend refuses and says it that isn’t his job and it’s his girlfriends job. Boyfriend values his time over his girlfriend’s and he sees the girlfriend’s time is better used to do the dishes.

Ex. Girlfriend reminds boyfriend 1-3 times a day to pick up his clothes off the floor. Boyfriend continues to throw dirty clothes on the floor for “whomever” to pick it up or “whenever he feels like it.” Habit may on the rare occasion be resolved in 1 hr to 100yrs. Duration of cure varies per human man.
Friend: Did John really have they audacity to blame you for not being able to communicate directly with him about what will make you happy? What a pick me bf!
You: I only have asked him everyday, to pick up the clothes, take out his trash, clean his piss around the toilet, wash his dishes...and he says he doesn’t know what I want. It must be because he’ll only hear me if he agrees with what I want.
by nonunonuu January 12, 2021
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Pick Me

When a girl does something for male validation. It can be bringing down others (girls in this situation), changing the way they act only when around boys (or changing their whole self just to please boys) and agreeing on sexist things they say towards women.
... said she belongs to the kitchen, she's such a Pick Me.
... said I wear wayy too much makeup and that's why boys don't like me. She's such a Pick Me!
by anonymous March 29, 2021
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Pick me girl

Omg jaycee is such a pick me girl
by Dnsysbgzjwjzube April 6, 2021
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