An actor who gets in a play with a lot of assistance from actor friends and then ditches said actor friends in the play THEY ALL AUDITIONED FOR, then proceeds to suck up to other, 'superior' actors, director, stage manager, etc.. Typically acts different around friends than around superiors, much like the pick me girl.
by Cephalopedia December 1, 2023

A person in the queer community who is queer but that is it. They are lesbian/gay/bi and use that for attention, having no personality whatsoever.
Friend A: So, you don't like people who are obnoxiously gay?? They are just expressing themselves and embracing their identity!
Friend B:No, that's not it! Love who you want to love, then move on! No one cares! Just stop being a Pick-me Queer!
Friend B:No, that's not it! Love who you want to love, then move on! No one cares! Just stop being a Pick-me Queer!
by anonymous July 3, 2025

a pick me is a girl/woman who would do anything for a boys attention,They can come in any shape big or small.
they would always say ''I'm not like other girls.''they can be a snake when they want something so if your friend(s) act and says that say the following.
i think we can't be friend's.
they would always say ''I'm not like other girls.''they can be a snake when they want something so if your friend(s) act and says that say the following.
i think we can't be friend's.
Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!
by yoloyman 2222 June 4, 2023

a male/female that is desperate to get the opposites gender approval/validation. they go out of their way to announce they are different then the opposite gender.
Vianna: Yeah, I like baby blue and pink!
Kaylee: Bruh you like pink? Its so girly. I like blue cuz im sort of a boy.
Vianna: She’s such a pick me
Kaylee: Bruh you like pink? Its so girly. I like blue cuz im sort of a boy.
Vianna: She’s such a pick me
by laladoobedoo May 13, 2022

A man who will diminish his self worth and create fake scenarios to pull at the heart strings of a woman.
He told me his best friend died with like no picture, just a blank snapchat. Definitely a pick me guy.
by Yomamma69420 May 25, 2022

A boy/girl often being obsessed over one typical person. Often saying things like " Oh yeah i literally into football i watch it everyday!" Just to get chosen by their crush. They often think that their life is a movie and will also copy the things they see from their crush or that seems to get their attention.
by thepersonuneedinyourlife September 7, 2023

Person 1 "Have u seen Wednesday boy?"
Person 2 "Oh yeah, he such a pick me that he doesn't even know what pick me means!"
Person 2 "Oh yeah, he such a pick me that he doesn't even know what pick me means!"
by Gingergreggs February 27, 2023
