by sam_gup October 30, 2018

Having sex with another person vengefully, usually as a way to get back at someone who you may have been sexually involved with. Often involves having sex with a friend of the person who wronged you. Can also involve a proxy, in this case another person has sex with the person who wronged you for the sake of getting the wringers hopes up only to leave them thus satisfying the vengeance.
Guy 1: My girl friend cheated on me man what do I do?
Guy 2: You should hook up with one of her friends and get a "revenge lay"
Guy 2: You should hook up with one of her friends and get a "revenge lay"
by The Man on the Lake October 1, 2017

To make the most of the situation you are placed in, or to work with what you've got. Playing a situation as it lays may include some improvisation.
Origins in golf, where a ball is played 'as it lies', or where it came to rest, as opposed to circumstances which would allow the ball to be played from another position on the course.
Origins in golf, where a ball is played 'as it lies', or where it came to rest, as opposed to circumstances which would allow the ball to be played from another position on the course.
by Pet Nuke July 6, 2020

Ryan:*on phone* you coming out?
Jordan: erm am kind of busy
Ryan: you laying it down mate?
Jordan: FUCK YEAH!
Jordan: erm am kind of busy
Ryan: you laying it down mate?
Jordan: FUCK YEAH!
by NakedNinjaaa August 9, 2010

She was laying up watching TV
by easymac77 July 10, 2011

by infinitycloser December 21, 2008
