Second bestness is when you know you are not the first choice if somebody asks you to be someone (wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend) or to do something (i.e. become the boss). You know that someone else was first choice and altough you accept the offer, it rankles and stays wth you forever, turning you into a bitter, overbearing person.
"I think Mum's feeling of second bestness is why she's always so horrible to me - knows Dad wanted to or should have married someone else."
by mimbijones April 7, 2023

by goatcodesasuke1 September 1, 2021

by imjustsoup November 8, 2021

A person that you can trust. A person that doesn't make you feel that you're alone at anytime. You can never run out of things to talk about because he always wants to hear you. You can text all day and night and he will never get bored of you (except when you start acting like a crazy bitch, he'll laugh then it'll get old after you do it multiple times.) He has great taste in music. You both have so much in common but at the same you guys are very different and that's what makes you guys's friendship the best. He supports you even if you want to make rules for the friendship or Make a silly little playlist so that you can listen to it when you guys want to remember each other. He most likely will be a really cool drummer and you'd be an also really cool clarinetist. You guys will most likely become besties in like 2 hours because you guys have a bond even though you guys have never seen each other. When you first see him it'll probably be the best coincidence ever, and you'll realize that he's even sweeter in person. When he's tired he'll look at your messages then sleep to make you feel like he cares about what you want to say, he'll lose sleep to talk to you. He's going to make you feel like that you're appreciated and accepted. He's going to Stan you and make you feel like you're the most important person to him. In conclusion get a guy best friend he'll make you feel alive, but if you got 100 guy friends mine's always gonna be the best.
Girl bestie: guy bestie ur the best guy best friend I could ever ask for. :)
Guy bestie: OMG THANK YOU!!!!
Guy bestie: OMG THANK YOU!!!!
by A Clarinet ..... November 17, 2020

by duvetslayz April 24, 2022

The day that you spend with your boy bestfriend and celebrate the time you’ve been together and share great memories and funny ones and have a good laugh
Stranger: What day is it?
Bestfriend 1: didn’t you hear?
Stranger: no..?
Bestfriend 1: Well... ITS NATIONAL BOY BEST FRIEND DAY!!! You should go celebrate
Bestfriend 1: didn’t you hear?
Stranger: no..?
Bestfriend 1: Well... ITS NATIONAL BOY BEST FRIEND DAY!!! You should go celebrate
by National Boy Bestfriend Day December 1, 2019

by SillyMars🌚 May 24, 2023
