The latest trend of metrosexuals seem to be found in the postal service. The "tough guys" have found that women no longer gravitate to that species but rather a man who is willing to show his feminine side, to be in touch with his
feelings, and to be able to display emotion. And, of course, a man who takes
pride in his appearance (clothes, hair, nails, scent~and not afraid to wear lavender) is
always going to be noticed.
In a business sense, if your heart is not in what you do, then you are fighting a losing battle. You must be passionate in your work and
always show others that you genuinely care about their well-being. By doing this, you gain respect and a
loyal following of your peers. You will
always be successful in your endeavors if
people know you are speaking from the heart. Without your heart, you have nothing.
Note: Metrosexuals have been confused with being gay, which isn't so terrible. And sometimes, you will find a gay man trying to
pass himself off as a metrosexual because he cannot find the courage to "come out of the closet" for fear of embarassment. All that man would have to do is be honest with his friends because they usually already have figured out his preferences and are fine with that.
To find a metrosexual in the postal service, look around the room. When you spot the man in the Oleg Cassini suit with a lavender shirt and
fancy matching tie (no boring solids, stripes, or dots), shoes shined, every strand of hair in place, and emitting the scent of PI by Givenchy or Jean
Paul Gaultier you have probably found your man. If you are
lucky enough to spot
one carrying a man-bag, that is the man you want to get to know. However, if when you approach him and he can only speak of work, sports, or golfing, be careful, you might have been duped.