verb | past tense: Fletchered
Definition:
A colloquial term used primarily within LGBTQ+ communities—especially among lesbians—to describe the experience of being unexpectedly left by a woman who subsequently begins a relationship with a man. Often used humorously or with irony, the term references a sense of betrayal or emotional whiplash, particularly when the woman was perceived as firmly identifying as a lesbian.
Etymology:
Derived from the pop singer Fletcher, whose queer-themed lyrics and personal branding have resonated with lesbian audiences. The term playfully reflects the perceived contradiction or the very real heartbreak when a seemingly lesbian-identified partner dates someone of the opposite sex, echoing themes in Fletcher’s music and public persona.
TL;DR: Named after former sapphic-pop star Fletcher, whose music is queer AF but who infamously dated a man after releasing some very gay bangers. Getting Fletchered is the queer version of “what just happened?”—equal parts betrayal, bisexual panic, and ironic meme fuel.
🫀Use with caution. Respect bi folks. But yeah… sometimes it do be like that.
Definition:
A colloquial term used primarily within LGBTQ+ communities—especially among lesbians—to describe the experience of being unexpectedly left by a woman who subsequently begins a relationship with a man. Often used humorously or with irony, the term references a sense of betrayal or emotional whiplash, particularly when the woman was perceived as firmly identifying as a lesbian.
Etymology:
Derived from the pop singer Fletcher, whose queer-themed lyrics and personal branding have resonated with lesbian audiences. The term playfully reflects the perceived contradiction or the very real heartbreak when a seemingly lesbian-identified partner dates someone of the opposite sex, echoing themes in Fletcher’s music and public persona.
TL;DR: Named after former sapphic-pop star Fletcher, whose music is queer AF but who infamously dated a man after releasing some very gay bangers. Getting Fletchered is the queer version of “what just happened?”—equal parts betrayal, bisexual panic, and ironic meme fuel.
🫀Use with caution. Respect bi folks. But yeah… sometimes it do be like that.
“We uHauled, got matching tattoos, made a playlist, and were planning a cottagecore future together — then she slept with her coworker Brad. I got Fletchered.”
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Get the Fletcher S mug.Fletcher is a fat little boy who eats, tuna, cum and rice every break for lunch. He is well known for liking bitches with bigger foreheads than the pacific ocean, and he only seems to contact them after 10pm as he rubs it out. He says his amazon FBA business WILL take off, if someone buys his goofy ahh alibaba product he got for 3 cents. He likes to bully people for weighing less than him even when they can bench more. And lowkey his sister addy, is know around town as ADDY THE BADDY. And he has a cute mum as well. I would tap.
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“Did you hear about the guy that jumped on stage at the Mitski and Harry Styles concert? Crazy.”
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Guy 1: Bro look at that guy, he's so fucking hot
Guy 2: OH SHIT THAT'S A FLETCHER!
Guy 1: A WHAT?? *dick breaks* SHIT!
Guy 2: OH SHIT THAT'S A FLETCHER!
Guy 1: A WHAT?? *dick breaks* SHIT!
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