when a guy tries to use his thumb to finger a girl with the intention of pleasuring her, but it backfires and she does not enjoy it.
Everything was going for smoothly for Larry with the girl of his dreams until he inserted his thumb into Tara's juicebox and produced no more than a thumber bummer.
A person who is in a serious relationship and continues to flirt, kiss, hang off of, or have sex with other people. Often several at the same time. This comes from the not so common phrase of someone "putting their thumbs in more then one pie."
When you and your friend stick your thumbs up your own asses and then you grab a hold of each others fists and work them up and down. (Similar to a dutch rudder but with thumbs and asses instead of dicks)