gaywad Share definition Flag A wad of that which is considered gay, either human, or object. The jean jacket worn by Heath Ledger during Brokeback Mountain, when wadded up in the corner, is a gaywad. See also: Andy Dick. gaywad by Jeff and Andrew January 29, 2006 0 0 Get merch Get the gaywad mug. Buy Now — $32.95 See more merch