The term originates from blogger 'Lalalaletmeexplain' - A Spectacular Buff
Ting is a person who is buff to their core. It doesn't matter what they look like on the outside. A spectacular buff
ting doesn't judge other's because they have probably 'sinned' before and are
pretty likely to 'sin' again. A spectacular buff
ting is someone who can acknowledge that they have behaved like a dick in the past and who does their best to not carry that behaviour into the future. It is someone who recognises their flaws but celebrates their strengths. A spectacular buff
ting knows that they are not defined by their past. They do not feel the need to apologise or take the blame for past toxic relationships. A spectacular buff
ting lifts other people up and helps others to learn from their own mistakes. They try to take a balanced approach to dealing with cuntish or
annoying people and they never resort to revenge, violence, or spite. A spectacular buff
ting knows themselves and what they deserve, they have high standards and they expect respect. They recognize red flags and they heed them. They treat other humans, and animals, with love and compassion. And on the days when they fuck up they take ownership and they repair it. A spectacular buff
ting let's go of society's expectations about how we should look and tries their best to show themselves unconditional love. A spectacular buff
ting does not always feel like a spectacular buff
ting, and that's OK.
