People who use forms of manipulation to date others. Stereotypically, pick-me girls will try to put down other women, and act like they are one of the boys, while pick-me boys use self-deprication, and will praise women so they feel bad and date them.
A: I heard you went on a date with B last night, how was it.
C: Well, he seems nice, but he's such a pick-me boy.
C: Well, he seems nice, but he's such a pick-me boy.
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Get the Pick-me mug.1) A person who is desperate for attention and acceptance, and will go out of their way to change their appearance, mannerisms, attitude, etc. for others' approval.
2) A woman who resorts to traditional gender stereotypes in an attempt to seek men's approval.
3) A minority (BIPOC, LGBT people, etc.) that support right-wing politics in hopes of gaining their approval.
2) A woman who resorts to traditional gender stereotypes in an attempt to seek men's approval.
3) A minority (BIPOC, LGBT people, etc.) that support right-wing politics in hopes of gaining their approval.
1) "Dave's sucking up to the boss again. He's turned into such a pick-me."
2) "Did you see the way Rosie acts when that guy's around? She's such a pick-me, and for such a lame guy too."
3) "Voting against your own rights won't make them stop hating you for being gay. Stop being such a pick-me."
2) "Did you see the way Rosie acts when that guy's around? She's such a pick-me, and for such a lame guy too."
3) "Voting against your own rights won't make them stop hating you for being gay. Stop being such a pick-me."
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An annoying ugly ass bitch named Ella Mossbacher that literally used to hang out with the boys in 5th grade and tries to include herself into things
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Get the Pick-Me mug.A girl or boy (usually a girl) who acts like she doesn't need help, but then makes a "mistake" because she or he wants attention. A pick-me is also very dramatic.
Pick-me: "Hi!"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
Person 1: "Hello! Oh can I help you carry those?"
Pick-me: "I'm ok thank you! *falls on purpose*"
Person 1: "OMG! Are you ok?"
Pick-me: "yes.... ow!"
Person 1: "What?!"
Pick-me: "My leg hurts.... i need to go to to the ER!!!"
Person 2: "Bro shes such a pick me"
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Get the Pick-me mug.A pick me (sometimes spelled as pick-me or pickme) is someone who puts down members of their own identity group for validation from others. Commonly used to refer to women (pick me girls), but can also be seen in others. Pick-me men also tend to be performative males, often pretending to relate to women's problems (most commonly in cis men). They often play into stereotypes, disregarding what the people around them are actually like
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Pick me's can also be seen putting down members of their own ethnicity, sexuality, religion, etc (i.e: a trans person saying non-binary people are weird despite non-binary being under the trans umbrella)
Girl 1: "Jane is such a pick-me."
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
Girl 2: "I know right??? She's always like "I'm one of the boys, I could never do make-up or drink something fruity" it's so annoying"
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Get the pick-me mug.A girl who pretends to be somebody she's not solely to gain attention from other people, usually guys.
Jenna is such a pick-me girl, she's always trying to be different.
(Jenna was just a random name, I'm not referring to anybody.)
(Jenna was just a random name, I'm not referring to anybody.)
by bigloafofbread December 12, 2025
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