by Commonwealth1325 October 20, 2003
A person who sees gender as a sociocultural construction and not something innate. Because genders are roles we play, and not something inherant, gender is something that can be turned on or off, tuned in or out and will. Because of this, someone who bends gender might wear baggy pants and pee standing one day, and crack out heels and a corset the next. People can bend gender in many ways and contexts, and because of this, people who are of any gender or sexual orientation can be gender-benders.
Sometimes, I feel sexy in a slinky dress and lipstick. Sometimes I feel handsome in a button down and tie. Sometimes I wear ties with skirts, corsets and cufflinks. I am a gender-bender, and I can bend gender norms to fit my conception of who I am.
by Kar in Garage May 09, 2007
A small adapter you use to connect two male or two female pinned/socketed cables of the same type together. You pervs.
by StrokeCity February 24, 2006
When you go on a prolonged spree of acting like the opposite gender, only to then remark that you were just on a bender
by killfukmary November 19, 2014
Boy George is a gender bender
by Minges and all! April 15, 2003
On a MUSH, MOO, MUCK, or other text-based online role-playing game, a male player who plays a female character. This is often done to attract partners for cybersex.
by Steve H. June 21, 2005
the embarrassing situation that arises from someone's innocently attributing the wrong gender to another person
I nearly got in a gender bender, but when I spotted the adam's apple I decided to stick to gender-neutral pronouns
by shamanticist May 01, 2015