gender bender

Someone who you see and cannot immediately discern the gender of.

"Lots of gender benders in this store."

by Commonwealth1325 October 19, 2003

gender-bender

A person who sees gender as a sociocultural construction and not something innate. Because genders are roles we play, and not something inherant, gender is something that can be turned on or off, tuned in or out and will. Because of this, someone who bends gender might wear baggy pants and pee standing one day, and crack out heels and a corset the next. People can bend gender in many ways and contexts, and because of this, people who are of any gender or sexual orientation can be gender-benders.

Sometimes, I feel sexy in a slinky dress and lipstick. Sometimes I feel handsome in a button down and tie. Sometimes I wear ties with skirts, corsets and cufflinks. I am a gender-bender, and I can bend gender norms to fit my conception of who I am.

by Kar in Garage July 3, 2007

gender bender

A small adapter you use to connect two male or two female pinned/socketed cables of the same type together. You pervs.

"hey, toss me that serial gender bender, will you?"

by StrokeCity April 10, 2006

gender-bender

When you go on a prolonged spree of acting like the opposite gender, only to then remark that you were just on a bender

Man: Was on a real gender-bender this weekend wearing lip stick and panties.

by killfukmary November 19, 2014

gender bender

An androginous person.
a transexual.
a transvestite.

Boy George is a gender bender

by Minges and all! April 15, 2003

gender bender

On a MUSH, MOO, MUCK, or other text-based online role-playing game, a male player who plays a female character. This is often done to attract partners for cybersex.

"I'm pretty sure Rena is a gender bender, she doesn't sound like a woman."

by Steve H. July 1, 2005

gender bender

the embarrassing situation that arises from someone's innocently attributing the wrong gender to another person

I nearly got in a gender bender, but when I spotted the adam's apple I decided to stick to gender-neutral pronouns

by shamanticist May 1, 2015