A “Pick me” individual is an individual who belongs to a marginalized group within a society who seeks approval from the dominant hegemonic group by repeatedly reiterating the validity of negative biases held by the dominant hegemony against the “Pick me’s” own group.
The desperation for the approval can lay in the Pick me’s poor self confidence, seen as a way highlight theirselves without highlighting oneself, and an avenue for political or financial gain
The desperation for the approval can lay in the Pick me’s poor self confidence, seen as a way highlight theirselves without highlighting oneself, and an avenue for political or financial gain
Candace was unable to find a long term boyfriend until she became a Pick me and began to appealing towards misogynistic men by agreeing with their misogyny.
by Incredulous Johnny January 16, 2024
Get the Pick memug. by the savageee July 6, 2017
Get the pick up ordermug. by LitHoboYoYo June 18, 2021
Get the Lit Pickmug. When a character is doing something dumb in a horror movie that will probably result in their death. Not necessarily always ending in the characters death, though the danger of the situation is obvious to those watching.
"Did you hear Maria was exploring that abandoned house the other day?"
"The one that was owned by the serial killer?
"Yeah, she's totally Picking Lemons"
"The one that was owned by the serial killer?
"Yeah, she's totally Picking Lemons"
by clawfullgood May 24, 2020
Get the Picking Lemonsmug. A group of degenerates that sit in a messenger call smoking their lungs off till they eventually die, usually get into arguments and can never decide on anything. Keyboard warriors. Junkies
by pickurnose November 7, 2023
Get the pick ya nosemug. 
Kelly: yea you see that hot guy over there? He’s a real pick dickle
Pam: no actually he’s kind of ugly I wouldn’t really like that
Pam: no actually he’s kind of ugly I wouldn’t really like that
by Jimbo96 June 17, 2020
Get the pick dicklemug.