When you are in a relationship with a person who is dealing with their last relationship and the damage that was done. The important thing to remember is it takes time for that person to work through how and why it didn't work. If they wanted to be with that person, they would...it's just part of the process. It's significantly tougher if the ex treated them badly, because they can't understand why. They spend too much time looking in the past and not enough time looking in the present and the future. They are closed off to you because the wound is still fresh. This can cause insecurity, frustration, helplessness, loneliness and sometimes even anger. How strong are you? Are you strong enough and skilled enough to fight with ghosts?
Dragonfly has been struggling since she broke up with the spider. He was manipulative, used her for sex and didn't really care about her life. But he manipulated her and pleased her physically, so she can't let it go. She can't see the sunshine around her, the love of the those here to protect her and show her the joy in each and every day. It would be easier if he were standing here in front of me instead of just living in her memory...it's like fighting with ghosts.
by LovetheDragonfly October 28, 2013
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Get the Ghost step mug.A term used when playing Ultimate Frisbee. Meaning the disc past through the players hand, while in the motion of catching the disc. As if they caught the disc but it slipped through their hands. (Failing to catch the Frisbee)
Person A: Okay Ben look out I'm going to throw the disc.
Person B: Okay I'm ready Winston
Person A: (Throws Disc)
person B:( Claps hands while attempting to catch the disc)
Person A: LOL you totally ghost grabbed that disc.
Person B: Okay I'm ready Winston
Person A: (Throws Disc)
person B:( Claps hands while attempting to catch the disc)
Person A: LOL you totally ghost grabbed that disc.
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We lost my sisters goat one time but then the Ghost cousins came and were like "hey, look to the Long House and you will find your sisters goat." Then what'd you know, we believed in the ghost cousins and there it was, right by the Long house.
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Get the chocolate ghost mug.Someone that you have had feelings for in the past and have gone, but, you still think highly of them & still acknowledge that they are attractive, anagous to a ghost. Someone that was alive, is no longer, and you haven’t forgotten about them.
Also may be willing to date if asked, because you know that it wouldn’t be hard to regain feelings for said person.
Also may be willing to date if asked, because you know that it wouldn’t be hard to regain feelings for said person.
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