A term created by angry bitter broke bums to shame hypergamous
women for having high standards and for wanting a sole provider husband/
boyfriend. It's also used to guilt trip women into settling to the 50/50 scam with splitting the
bill on dates and paying have the bills.
Broke and cheapskate dusty males want to have easy and free access to women's time and body...so they shame women by calling them "gold diggers" and prostitutes when women demand the
man to court & invest his money and resources in her. These are the same dusties who want a woman that's dolled up feminine, young and fit.