A true "Friends with Benefits" relationship is CASUAL sex relationship between poor females (or any needy female) and a financially generous sugar daddy (from the upperclass and middle class but especially upperclass).
Having sex with non financially generous males and poor males is NOT a benefit since poor males more typically GET benefits from government entities in the form of welfare.. not GIVE benefits.
"Friends with benefits" and "casual sex" are not the same thing. A girl with a special sugardaddy friend who pays her bills with whom she has sex with in return for his financial generosity .. is in a true contemporary modern example of a REAL friends with benefits relationship.
Having sex with non financially generous males and poor males is NOT a benefit since poor males more typically GET benefits from government entities in the form of welfare.. not GIVE benefits.
"Friends with benefits" and "casual sex" are not the same thing. A girl with a special sugardaddy friend who pays her bills with whom she has sex with in return for his financial generosity .. is in a true contemporary modern example of a REAL friends with benefits relationship.
"wow, Lisa has a sugardaddy. He pays her bills for her and she gives him sex but she is 27 and he is 50. Are they lovers? They cant possibly be true lovers with that age gap"
"nope. They admit they aren't LOVERS per se. They are friends. They are in a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS RELATIONSHIP. The benefit is that she doesn't have to pay for cable television or net hookup. But if he was a poor guy ... it would just, instead, be a casual sex relationship with no real tangible benefits returned to her. She'd still have to work extra hours to get a better cable tv package"
"nope. They admit they aren't LOVERS per se. They are friends. They are in a FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS RELATIONSHIP. The benefit is that she doesn't have to pay for cable television or net hookup. But if he was a poor guy ... it would just, instead, be a casual sex relationship with no real tangible benefits returned to her. She'd still have to work extra hours to get a better cable tv package"
by funny spoon fed baby November 18, 2011
friends with benefits is waht happens when the guy u like, likes someone else as well as u, and is waiting to c if the other girl will make a move.
james likes mary and julie, so hes Friends with Benefits with julie, while hes waiting to move in on mary
by unlovedn4gotn November 02, 2005
by georgiarose October 02, 2013
2 friends that fuck each other or think about it without being labeled as boyfriend and girlfriend. They both care for each other very much, but don’t have any feelings for each other.
Friend~ you guys fuck?
Girl~ yeah but we r just friends.
Friends~ so like friends with benefits?
Girl~ yeah!
Girl~ yeah but we r just friends.
Friends~ so like friends with benefits?
Girl~ yeah!
by Annoying Bitch March 03, 2018
Two (or more) people who want to hang as friends, yet don't want to settle for exclusive claims on the other. We help, talk and are real, actually great friends. "Relationships" dampen that carefree spontanaity, because possessiveness and jealousy stifles the soul.
I help my FWB score if she sees something that she fancies, and vice versa! No shame in a 3some as long as #3 understands the possessiveness boundaries.
We occasionally even do the midnight bootycall to each other if she or I need to get our jollies taken care of with no delay! being both highly sexed individuals and not nearly enough time to wine and dine for as piece of ass. As friends, no jealousy on either end. This friendship is unique, we both understand that.
If you find it, you'll never lose your best friend. Things evolve. If you stop balling for whatever reason, you still have a dear, lifelong real friendship, someone who understands you best. And will occasionally offer you a quick O if you look like you could really use the release.
I help my FWB score if she sees something that she fancies, and vice versa! No shame in a 3some as long as #3 understands the possessiveness boundaries.
We occasionally even do the midnight bootycall to each other if she or I need to get our jollies taken care of with no delay! being both highly sexed individuals and not nearly enough time to wine and dine for as piece of ass. As friends, no jealousy on either end. This friendship is unique, we both understand that.
If you find it, you'll never lose your best friend. Things evolve. If you stop balling for whatever reason, you still have a dear, lifelong real friendship, someone who understands you best. And will occasionally offer you a quick O if you look like you could really use the release.
Your flex schedule is screwing up your sex life too, Marianne? I get so horny that the crack of dawn isn't safe. Maybe with some schedule coordination, we could make that "friends with benefits!" thing work out for the both of us
by nextel1000 September 30, 2019
Friends with Benefits is a PC term for SLUT and/or Whore. This type of adultry falls into the same catagory. Call it what you want, but to have a friend with benefits just makes a whore out of you. Save yourself for marriage.
by Doug Hightower February 12, 2006
Friends with Benefits is a term that can describe most anything. However, usually, when one talks about this phrase they are speaking of "a person with assets who can help the less fortunate person out" who is in need of money, property, a good meal, a favor, etc. This means that the friend in question likes to pay for things and in exchange, you put out for a little while. It can be a long term or a short term proposition. And, friend with benfits does not always mean putting out for sex in exchange for money. You can be doing this for other favors to that person, like for a meal, a chance to see a play, a chance to help someone get from Point A to Point B, etc. etc.
As an example, if I run an ad on Craigs List about friends with benefits, maybe this means I am looking for a good time but I am also short on cash so I would appreciate meeting someone who understands the term and a person who likes meeting a person like myself or whomever. So, in exchange for my spending a little or a lot of time with you or a group of people, it is "expected" that you are going to hand over some cash or buy me something that I need/want to satiate my needs/wants/desires. This is called 'friends with benefits' to put it lightly. I could run an ad in MFM or MFW or both looking for a person who has money on Craigslist or anywhere I wish to that is discreet, usually, lots and lots of it money they don't mind burning through to give money to me, the charity in question. This is just one example of 'friends with benefits'. There are many others.
by Professor PMS October 14, 2009