When a guy just tells girls to cum over for a date because he is too busy with work to go anywhere. That way she can just "drop in" for a date whenever she is in the neighborhood without making formal plans and having to doll up to go out. This is a big time saver and very convenient and minimizes drama.
Credit-Michelle
Example: Jim called Shell over for a drop in date and he cooked her dinner and they cuddled together afterwards.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.