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The action of holding both arms out in upside down 90 degree angles (like a cactus with upside down arms 🌡) during an awkward or uncomfortable situation when you don’t know how else to respond. Usually paired with an uncomfortable smile πŸ™ƒ.

This is especially used by socially awkward people. Also known as: the awkward cactus
Person: πŸŒ΅πŸ™ƒ
Friend: Are you cactusing?!
Cactusing by daisynicolexo December 6, 2020
going out to The Neon Cactus at Purdue University, its a Thursday must-do for 21 year olds
Hey, are you cactusing tonight?
cactusing by Karen Booker May 5, 2012
masturbation at its finest. With or wittout artifical lube.
Jim likes to use astroglide while cactusing
cactusing by Hugh G. Balls February 11, 2003
When you have a technical problem and you ask for help from someone and they just stand there while you show the problem and miraculously, it works even though it didn't seconds ago.
Well, it works now. Thanks for cactusing for me, I guess...
cactusing by johnseelewis October 31, 2015
My favorite pastime is cactusing
Cactusing by Cactusing April 20, 2020
Usually referred to when having intercourse with ones friend
Me and my other friend were cactusing last night
Cactusing by Cumconsumer March 7, 2022