Japanese erotic bondage. Kinbaku means to bind tightly. In the vernacular it refers to the Japanese style of bondage called Nawa Shibari. Shibari means to tie and nawa means rope. Combined they mean rope bondage.
Tash was looking for an older gentleman who would indluge who fetish for Kinbaku.
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"