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YSI-YCI-YFI

A manipulative tactic—often used in banlighting and PADARVO—where the perpetrator accuses the target of being the one who “started it,” “continued it,” or “finished it,” regardless of the actual timeline. By claiming “You started it,” the abuser frames any initial reaction or boundary-setting as the original aggression. “You continued it” is used when the target refuses to stop defending themselves, casting persistence as provocation. “You finished it” weaponizes the target’s final response—often a justified outburst—as the definitive act that “proved” their toxicity. The perpetrator cycles through these accusations as needed, shifting the blame onto the target for every phase of the conflict. YSI‑YCI‑YFI effectively erases the perpetrator’s own role by projecting it entirely onto the victim, making them appear to be the sole source of conflict and therefore deserving of banning or exclusion.
YSI-YCI-YFI Example: “After weeks of baiting, she finally replied. He reported her with the note ‘She started it.’ When she showed evidence of his provocation, he added ‘She continued it by arguing.’ When she gave up and left, he told the mods ‘She finished it by leaving dramatically.’ YSI‑YCI‑YFI: using every phase of the conflict to blame the victim.”
Initialism for "You can ignore this." Used in text messages.
I wonder what a blue dog would look like. YCIT.
YCIT by RTCA April 12, 2010
All my homies hate YCIS
YCIS by asfasfdadfskl December 26, 2022
A nerd that games alot gets called good but has a shitty team and always carries, he doesn't care so much though because he has fun.
yCIix is good at video games
yCIix by The vanisher April 7, 2021
i am so ycilys
ycilys by ycilys March 26, 2022

yciMc,BSOYT,adMvwb?f,icbydt.ydaFUSas-itikmaagdty.igtpogAaoms!!! 

Short for “you come into MY chilis, BARBECUE SAUCE ON YOUR TITTIES, and disrespect MY valentino white bag? fuck, I can’t believe you’ve done this. you’re disrespecting a FUTURE US army soldier - i think i know more about american girl dolls than you. ive got the power of god AND anime on my side!!” Originated from Tumblr.
It’s always wyd and never yciMc,BSOYT,adMvwb?f,icbydt.ydaFUSas-itikmaagdty.igtpogAaoms!!!