when a guy helps you out or leads you in the right direction only you don't see it for what it is until much later.
"That was uncool for him to up and leave like he did, but looking back on things now it was the best thing he could've done for both of us because now we have a real chance. Yeah, I was humbeled by his foresight"
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.