a Barm is a visios, manipulative tipe of man.
At first he may appear as a kind and gentle soul,but soon he changes and shows you his true horrible colours.
He can't give an emotional support, and when he "can" show you any kind of emotional support, it's only when it's comfrtable to him.
He
will leave you at the time you
will need him the most. He's gonna blame you in most of your relatbel problems, constantly saying you're over reacting when he is the one that acting in the most unorthodox way and you just respond to it not in the matter that he would
like.
He
will ignore your tears and he
will play with your emotions by pushing you and pulling you in and out of his life . You
will always feel anaware with how things are heading with him and you, and he
will keep you unaware until it breaks you.
He is condesended and spoiled, and most of all egotistic. And he
will always find a way to make you feel like he is
a better person then you.
You'll never gonna feel like him apologizing is genuine and the axcuse is that you chose to get hurt and not him hurting you.
He has low confidence and high self asteam.
He's gonna make you feel like you the one that needs to change and not him. He paints himself as perfect.
He
will never make you feel like he
will come for your sake of good.
If it's not comfrtable for him, then most likely it's not for him. He
will never step out of his comfot zone for you.
He
will stay with you only in the good times and live you in bad times.