From the movie, "Play It to the Bone" Woody Harrelson says " a man could build a thousand bridges and suck one cock. He will be know as a cock sucker, not a bridge builder.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.